2022.01.25 16:51 Venusian_Princess_ My (F27) relationship with my boyfriend (M26) suddenly became toxic any advice appreciated
Me and my boyfriend used to have a great relationship (at least from my perspective) but it was always convoluted. I wanted to have my own life and have a boyfriend that I met up with for sex and dates (spa weekends, nights out, hanging out ect). But my boyfriend wanted a proper relationship. Also religion complicated things further as my boyfriend is from an overly religious family and he made me frame it as a marriage but legally it wasn't, but to them it was. I made him sign a document saying that we are not married in any legal sense in case things every got bad and ended up in court.
The first 2 years of the relationship were great, and what ended up happening that my boyfriend rented a nice flat and asked me to live there rent free. I bought food and paid for dates and outings, stuff was good. Then three months ago everything suddenly went down the toilet and stuff got toxic real fast.
Basically boyfriend had been pushing himself too much and became depressed. He bought a flat that was way out of his budget (I didn't ask for it or even like it to begin with) and couldn't keep up with the bills and had to take an extra job. He became very foul temeperted and also developed an unhealthy relationship with various people on Snapchat. He would do dumb things like leave me alone in the middle of the night randomly. I ended up leaving him for a week, on the day we were getting back together I broke my shoulder and needed to stay with him for a month to recover as I can't drive.
It turns out that he'd been lying to his parents that I pay bills and then when he was staying with his mum he told her that I pay nothing but food. Now his mum and dad are calling me a leech and trying to get me to pay to fix this mess (bf is also on a prepaid electric meter and the bill costs £50ish per week). I flat out told them this isn't my problem and I'm not here dragged into it. Now boys wants me to pay for his stuff also. I told him that once my shoulder gets better I'm going back home and that I never signed up for any of this. His dad said he won't get us another flat (be guarantor on the load) unless I pay half of everything. And my boyfriend suddenly wants kids now to top it off.
I've basically told him that this is too toxic and I can't be asked to deal with it anymore, so I'm going to go home and take a step back to think about what I want to do next. Things seem to be improving over the last few days but other than taking a step back I don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend but I don't know if this relationship can be healthy again after all that's happened.
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2022.01.25 16:51 Nordic_Krune Smogon tier placements in graph form - Part 2: Johto starters
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2022.01.25 16:51 Aggressive_Repair430 FRESHER WITH SOME DOUBTS
So guys i recently got admitted in purdue university for my bachelors in cybersecurity and networking and I was wondering once I finish my undergrad what would be my starting salary? And should I pursue masters or go for certifications?And can I get summer internships in this field?
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2022.01.25 16:51 Mustachioed_Pizza Spider sense turned on
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2022.01.25 16:51 weirdal1968 Strip club speaker find - Sansui, Pioneer and Realistic.
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2022.01.25 16:51 wbb22 [WTS] Aimpoint Comp M4S (NC)
What’s up larpers,
Catch and release from a trade. Functions awesome, is absurdly bright on max power.
Housing is tastefully salted, glass is awesome. Most importantly, it looks cool, which is all that matters.
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2022.01.25 16:51 ThePathogenicRuler Thirst levels critical.
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2022.01.25 16:51 Picassh03 Where to buy good quality temporary tattoo paper?
I am looking for temporary tattoo paper for a cosplay. I have looked far and wide, but am having trouble finding a decent product that ships to Canada. Most of what I have found seems to transfer a little sheet of plastic that can be peeled off- I'm trying to find something longer lasting and more professional looking. I don't mind buying in bulk (in fact, I prefer it) and have access to a laser printer (laser printer temp tattoo paper seems to be better quality?). Any product/company recommendations or advice would be incredible. Cheers!
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2022.01.25 16:51 ShortAlgo $APM Look at this! 8 Trades executed, trade Profitability of 75 % and Profit Factor of 8. 15 minute chart.
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2022.01.25 16:51 StarryPagan98 Am I weird pagan?
I am now 23 and since i was 10 believed in the gods
I pray to the gods, say their hymns, etc.
But I only have gotten their energy. Like lord Ares, his energy is like a "sabaton" song, full volume
But never had any direct experiences or anything.
Some pagans say that they got their first experience when calling out to a deity, some say it took awhile.
I just feel weird since it's been over decade and never once had a experience
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2022.01.25 16:51 TheChaoticJay The Legion of Cryptomancy is upon us. Summoners are gathering for the mass ritual! Ready to join the Legion? See Bio for Details
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2022.01.25 16:51 ZoolShop Inside US lab that's keeping frozen bodies and heads of 200 people in hope they can be brought back to life
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2022.01.25 16:51 ShortAlgo $BALY Look at this! 9 Trades executed, trade Profitability of 77% and Profit Factor of 4. 15 minute chart.
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2022.01.25 16:51 Consistent-Expert-36 ShadowFighter
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2022.01.25 16:51 DenVosReinaert Not what I expected to see in this show. (Little Witch Academia)
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2022.01.25 16:51 NeonDragonBoy They're geniuses!
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2022.01.25 16:51 Greenthumbman Same dog how life can make you serious
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2022.01.25 16:51 BiGGiDY_214 Login • Instagram
2022.01.25 16:51 Substantial_Ad7698 Homebrew (BUG): Gradius Advance won't save in GBARunner2?
It recommends to boot this one, but keeps asking you to delete one of the saved files and it won't even continue due to an white screen, so any to fix for this(?) and was they all work on VisualBoy Advance-M Emulator on my PC.
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2022.01.25 16:51 FallCompetitive7976 25-January I am still here
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2022.01.25 16:51 user404_- Reddit moment
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2022.01.25 16:51 MaxVerstappening I cant decide between g29 and t248
I am in the DFGT gang (and I am happy) but it doesnt cut it for me. I have 250 budget and I can easily find a used g29 with shifter and old acelith f1 wheel. As much as I really want an f1 wheel, I do want a band wheel and t248 is in my cost range but its a mix of motor and band so I dont know which one to get. What do you guys say?
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2022.01.25 16:51 Status_Let_3850 90 Day Fiancee' Has Helped Me Grow as a Man
I learned is that a man's attraction is not always based on his looks, but rather his behavior and upbringing, and overall view of the world.
I used to get mad at women for "looking over the nice guys" until everything started making sense
Coltie, for example, has Improved leaps and bounds in appearance, speech patterns, and personality. In hindsight, he was in a son-husband relationship with his mother, and their co-dependacy was harmful for both. It's easy to judge woman for not wanting a mama's boy, but who would want to be married to a man child whose mother of views you as competition? Why would a woman want to be married to a man that is a child?
There are other men, like Caesar, who are good people, but are very emotionally unstable, and would rather spend more money on chasing intercourse than bettering themselves.
People like Paul, Mike and Gino has brought to light the fact that so many people have undiagnosed deficiencies. A lot of the "weirdos" that we have seen aren't bad looking, more like they have suffered from Psycological and Sociological issues.
Big Ed shows too much "love" to soon. I have learned that women get turned off by men that show too much affection early, because they have probably been the victims of love bombing, and other insidious manipulation tactics.
With that said, one of the biggest issues I noticed is that men who are not conventionally attractive are oftentimes called weirdos and creeps far faster that people like Jessie.
Jesse is weird himself, but because he is good-looking, is a model, young, and travels the world. Plenty of women can see past his faults, even though he is emotionally abusive and manipulative. Unfortunately, being good looking and attractive gives people the right to be abusive.
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2022.01.25 16:51 kv_87 Google kills off FLoC, replaces it with Topics | TechCrunch
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